Monday, December 29, 2014

{New Year, New Goals}

First, I cannot believe that the first day of 2015 is in a few days. 2014 has absolutely flown by even more so than the other years before it. It has been a great year overall--full of traveling to different places, new jobs, and a challenging school-year. What I think of when I think of the approaching new year: New Year's Resolutions. We've probably all made them at some point if we're honest, and probably all broken some (or most) of them early on in the new year as well. Instead of drawing up resolutions for this upcoming year, I'm making eight clear-cut goals. So here goes...now I'm accountable to you! ;)

1. Grow in Christlikeness. As 2015 starts and even as it ends, I'd like to grow visibly and obviously in Christ. We are called to grow in our relationships with God, not to regress or even stay in a rut like stagnant water, unwilling to move or change.
1 Corinthians 11:1: "Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ." {Paul}
Ephesians 4:15: "Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into Him who is the head, into Christ." {Paul}

2. Practice Humility. In 2015, simply more of Him and less of me. If we humble ourselves to Him, the rest will fall into place. And if we don't humble ourselves, He will rightly bring us to our knees somehow.
Psalm 55:19: "God will give ear and humble them, he who is enthroned from of old, Selah because they do not change and do not fear God."
Psalm 25:9: "He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble His way."

3. Have Consistent & Goal-Seeking Prayer-Time. I aspire for my prayer-life to grow in this new year. If we open ourselves up to Him, He will reveal Himself and speak to us. One way many have suggested is simple prayer cards. From experience, I know that purely relying on my memory sometimes leads to forgetfulness and distractions. Your prayer-life is a pretty accurate evaluation of your walk with God considering it is direct interaction between you and Him!
Matthew 7:7: "Ask, and it will be given to you seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you."
John 14:13-14: "Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it."
John Bunyan: "Prayer is a shield to the soul, a sacrifice to God. and a scourge for Satan."

4. Be Submerged in God's Word. Another important part of your walk with God is how often you spend reading His Word. The Bible says that the Word was God. That makes it very important besides the fact that it is God-breathed. Not only is it His love letter to us, but tells us how we should live. If we don't read it, how will we know? It is our road-map!
2 Timothy 3:16-17: "All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work."
Joshua 1:8: "Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.


5. Guard My Thoughts, Actions, and Words. When we see or hear something, it is so easy to make quick judgments. But this is not pleasing to God. So in 2015, I will not be so quick to make judgments about others.
John 7:24: "Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment."
Romans 12:2: "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."

6. Give Back to God. You may think that you don't have anything to give to God. However, there are many things that we can give back to God, all of which are already His anyways. One thing is our TIME. I know, there's not enough time in the day, weeks just pass us by, and there's plenty of things to do. But one thing we can always make time for is God. If not, we might need a priority-adjustment. Time can seem to fly by and it only goes faster as your get older. But, with the right time-management, it's possible. Another thing God asks for is TITHE. I'm sure a lot of people reading this have jobs, including me. We are called to give some of that back to Him, (example: 10%) and if we don't, "He'll get it out of us some way." It will become something we want to do instead of something that we have to do. It's just the way I was raised, I couldn't imagine anything different. Lastly, (but not the end of the list) we can give Him our DEDICATION and focus. All of these He so deserves, and SO much more!
Psalm 90:12: "Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom."
Malachi 3:10: "'Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be good in my house. Test me in this,' says the LORD Almighty, 'and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of Heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.'"
1 John 4:16: "And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them."

7. Find Joy in the Little (& big) Things. Joy can be found in lots of things--the good and the bad. Happiness and joy are often confused or intertwined with each other. However, the truth is quite the opposite. You can have joy without being happy, and you can be happy without containing joy! There will be times in life when it seems that all hope and joy are lost--but we need to remember that they're not! 
James 1:2-4: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

8. Do Everything I Do to the Glory of God. Lastly, in 2015, I want to be synonymous to a beacon of light for God in my words, actions, thoughts, etc.; we are called to be the light(s) of the world! If we don't show God's love, who will? After all, that is why we are here on Earth.
Colossians 3:17: "And WHATEVER you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.'
Matthew 5:14: "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden."

Happy New Year! ~M

Saturday, December 27, 2014

{Unending Endurance}

I have previously written about trials/tribulations. But how do we get through these trials? We endure. But what does it really mean to endure? To endure is to suffer something painful or difficult patiently. There are three things that I think we, as Christians, should know about enduring and suffering.

1. We will suffer. 2 Timothy 3:12: "In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted." It is inevitable and part of our walk with the Lord. Most likely, we will suffer for our faith at one point in our life, whether verbal, physical, or emotional. But the good news is that God gives us the tools we need to overcome and combat these attacks.

 
2. We, as Christians, are called to endure. 2 Timothy 3:14-15: But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus." An upbringing in church and deep-rooted faith in Jesus Christ are two things that can strengthen one's endurance. As you grow older, your faith will be tested, by new friends, family members, or college professors. You must know what you believe, how to defend your beliefs, and how to stick with your beliefs. Another vital "tool" for endurance, available to all, is the Bible. 2 Timothy 3:16-17: "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work." When looking for instruction or verifying information given, the Bible is the perfect tool to use! Unlike a lot of other books, everything in it is TRUE and useful.

Also, if you are a Christian, you are not the same, nor will you ever be. 2 Corinthians 5:17: "If anyone is in Christ, she is a new creation. The old has gone the new has come." You have undergone a Spiritual rebirth! That, in itself, is something to celebrate. 1 Timothy 6:12: "Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses."

3. Jesus suffered. That might sound weird, but as a human, Jesus suffered. Hebrews 2:18: "Because He Himself suffered when He was tempted, He is able to help those who are being tempted." What did He suffer? "Who for the joy set before Him endured the cross" Hebrews 12:2. Whom did he suffer for? "To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in His steps" 1 Peter 2:21. Lastly, God IS love. Human love cannot hold a candle to God's unconditional and everlasting love that He gives us freely. And one thing that endures all others is God's love.

~M


Tuesday, December 23, 2014

{Contemplating Karma}

When someone does something to them that they don't like, clinging to "karma" is an automatic reaction for some people. They say (or think) "they'll get what they deserve" or "what goes around comes around" or "karma will catch up with them." However, there is more to karma than the skin-deep idea of initial consequence for one's actions.

First, the "book" definition of karma is the sum of a person's actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences.


Where does karma originate? It is a theological concept found in the Buddhist and Hindu religions.

Basically, it is the idea that your actions from this life will determine the quality of your life after reincarnation. So in other words, whether you live selfishly or unselfishly, your next state or life will purely be determined by your actions in this current state of living. Does the Bible support the theological concepts of karma or reincarnation? Put simply, the Bible rejects reincarnation; therefore, karma is not supported either.

What is supported by the Bible? The fact that we are born once and die once. Hebrews 9:27: "Just as man is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment..." This verse spurns the theory of karma. Humans do not participate in an endless cycle of life, death, and rebirth. More  importantly, after our one death, we face God's judgment. This means that there is no turning back or second chance, no opportunity to instill faith in the karma of past good acts to save you from Judgment Day. This life is all the time we have to decide our eternal destinies.

Secondly, Job 4:8 says, "As I have observed, those who plow evil and those who sow trouble, reap it." Our sins do not go unnoticed or unpunished by God. Galatians 6:7: "Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that he will also reap." Imagine parents not punishing their child at all and giving the child whatever he or she wants. How would the child behave? Sometimes we act like spoiled and selfish children, but God knows what is best for us and what we deserve. Additionally, He continues to love us through the good and bad. If He did not punish us, He would not be a just God, which He is.

Lastly, Ephesians 2:8-9 tells us that, "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith - and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God - not by works, so that no once can boast." Salvation through Jesus Christ is not about age, race, actions, good works, or even being good enough. It is obtainable by all and taken by many. It is truly the greatest gift.

Bottom line: The theory of karma gives you what you deserve. In contrast, for eternity, God does not. We, as sinful and wretched humans, would never be "good enough" to deserve to spend eternity with God. We could not earn it either. It is a free gift called salvation that we can take if we choose to, and we are so, so undeserving of His grace. 

~M

Sunday, December 21, 2014

{Relationship Realities}

Dating is a lot different than it used to be. 
The way teenagers date is a ton different than 
it used to be. What do most people want?

      OR

ENDING UP WITH THE WRONG RIGHT PERSON. Let's be real. How many mature guys do you know that live for the LORD? Likewise, how many modest, Christ-like girls do you interact with on a daily basis? Well, my answer is simply not enough. So often do relationships crash and burn because of the lack of dedication and immaturity represented on one or both sides of the equation. Maybe God's telling you that you don't need to be in a relationship right now. Maybe He's saying you don't need to have a future with that undesirable character in order to avoid later heartbreak. Whatever the case, He's right, and we need to listen to Him.

DATING WITH A PURPOSE. Countless relationships are started just to be able to say that they are not single or alone. These are the same ones that usually end in disaster. It is like running a marathon with no  real goal or anticipation. When the going gets tough, there is no reason to stick around or try to persevere. That is the same way a half-hearted relationship is. A waste of time if it is purposeless.

But how do you end up with the right kin d of person? First, pray about it. God knows what is best for us, so we need to seek His opinion before starting any new relationship. Secondly, set standards. High, commendable standards. When I say high standards, I don't mean judgments based on looks, money, or prestige. However, I mean qualities like Christ-like, honest, good personality, pure, loves the Lord, dresses and behaves modestly, compassionate, and humble. Thirdly, make sure that you, yourself, are following the same standards you set. How can we expect to attract someone of high quality if we are not behaving likewise? If they are truly of high character then they would expect the same in a partner - nothing less. 1 Corinthians 15:33: "Do not be misled: 'Bad company corrupts good character.'" Whether it's you or just the people you're hanging around, you're still known for that demeanor or behavior. That is why we should make sure that we are exhibiting proper behavior, and being conscious of the company we keep; bad company can bring us down. Likewise, good company can bring us closer to God. Proverbs 27:17: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."

PARTNER IN CHRIST? One definite is finding someone who makes me want to strive to be a better person everyday, living for the Lord and not for myself. By far the most important quality in a potential partner would be Christ-like Christian. Not only do they say they are a Christian, but they live like one too. A person to grow closer to the Lord with, what could be better? 
DRAWING THE LINE. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20: "Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body." With any relationship comes a question: where to stop? As partners, lines should be firmly drawn. Many people have different ideas on where that line should be drawn and if it can be crossed. Most importantly, what does God say about this? "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God." (Ephesians 4:3-5) Additionally, God calls us to completely rid ourselves of these sinful desires. Colossians 3:5: "Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, umpurity, passion evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry."
LASTLY, I challenge you to take inventory of your relationship status. Single, dating, whatever, doesn't matter. Do you have high standards and  morals that cannot be shaken? If you have a relationship, is God the center of it? Even if you are not in a relationship, is God your first priority?
 
~M

{Christ in Christmas}

It is all too easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season. There is an abundance of things that can distract us: shopping, family, Christmas plays or concerts, friends, exams, or just life itself. But what should we really be thinking about this time of the year? Or, perhaps, even year-round...

Here are three things that I think we should remember:
First, the reason that we should celebrate is far, far more important than anything else that could preoccupy us. Everything that we do this time of the year--and all throughout it--should glorify the Lord. Psalms 150:1-2: "Praise the Lord! Praise God in His sanctuary; Praise Him in His mighty expanse. Praise Him for His mighty deeds; Praise Him according to His excellent greatness." 

Also, "tons of babies have become kings, but only once has a King become a baby." The price that Jesus paid for our sins is often underestimated or taken for granted by even Christians. Luke 2:11: "Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is the Messiah, the Lord."

Lastly, Jesus bore our sins on that cross for a reason, not in vain. 1 Peter 2:24: "He Himself bore our sins in His body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed." So, whatever you are dealing with this Christmas, big or small, give it over to God. "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light" (Matthew 11:28-30). That in itself sounds like a reason to celebrate to me.

Keeping Christ in Christmas. I cringe when I hear or see the words "Merry X-Mas!" Why are you taking the very "reason for the season" out of the name itself? That is like calling Thanksgiving "X-Giving." How ridiculous does that sound? Well then why do people think it is okay to take Christ's name out of Christmas and plaster the new coined holiday on shopping bags, cards, and gifts? Likewise, it is important that we remember the true reason we celebrate and to not get caught up in the presents or festivities of the holiday. That is when we will truly have a Christ-filled Christmas.

~M

{Wasted Worrying}

As you may know, "fear not" (in some form or fashion) is in the Bible a significant number of times. It can include, do not worry, don't be afraid, or other variations. They all mean the same for us. This must mean that God does not want us to be anxious or afraid! However, as I am sure you know, humans worry. As an avid worrier myself, I know it is all too easy to get caught up in apprehensions and anxieties and not focus on God as I should. Many things can cause us to worry: relationships with friends, schoolwork, family members, exams, peoples' opinions, what to wear tomorrow, or even if your favorite sports team will win the championship. Are these things worth worrying for?

Some people say that worry is a sin. Since it is the most repeated command in the Bible, God obviously wanted to make a point. But why does God not want us to worry? When we worry, is it not like saying that we do not trust God or His plan for our life? "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11) If you believe this verse, then there is no reason to worry about your life or what is happening. Furthermore, God tells us specifically not to: Then Jesus said to his disciples: "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes" Luke 12:22-23.

If you were trying to make it out of a complicated maze, would you feel safe following the guidance and assistance of a person in a helicopter with an aerial view, a map, and extreme foresight? Well, of course! They know which way you should go, what will happen, and how to safely get out of the maze. This is how we should look at our lives: we are the vehicles and God has the road-map. We should bask in the faithfulness of God--knowing that everything will work out as it should in the end. And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him who have been called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). Although we might be hesitant at several forks or turns in the road, "there are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind" (C.S. Lewis).

Sometimes what we need to obtain is the innocent and pure child-like faith of the young--openly trusting with complete devotion and acceptance. Luke 18:17: "Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it." This, in itself, is pleasing to God.
So as you go about your Christmas holiday, be conscious of God's presence in your life, and try not to worry. It is easy not to worry in the good times--but anxiety can attempt to take over in the bad. No matter what the circumstances are, turn them over to God, and let Him do his perfect will in every situation. 

~M


{Other verses to look at}
-Isaiah 41:10
-Joshua 1:9
-Romans 15:13
-1 John 4:4

Sunday, December 14, 2014

{Tribulations to Trials}

Pity Parties. Everyone has them sometimes if we're honest. We all occasionally get the desire to wallow in our misfortunes that are thrown our way whether they are related to a materialistic object we don't have or regarding a certain person. But are these feelings truly justified?

We all have different trials put in our life for a specific reason. If a first-grader was given the same 2+3 math problem until they graduated high school, how good would they be at math? Or if a runner training for a marathon only ran a mile everyday so as not to get winded, what would happen when they showed up for the big 26 mile run? Would they improve, mature, or reach their goal? The truth is probably no; you get better by being challenged with something more difficult than you have encountered before. Strengthened by accomplishing a new feat that you have never mastered before. So shouldn't we look at life's twists and turns the same way? Whether you're a Christian or not, you're not promised a smooth-sailing life. Comforting, I know.

Something you have probably heard a time or two: "He will not give you more than you can take." Is this entirely true? Well, as humans, we are pretty incapable of doing most things ourselves. If we were self-sufficient beings we would not need police officers, fire-fighters, doctors, teachers, plumbers, or even God. Put bluntly, we're anything but self-sufficient. We, as humans, need God. Some think blindly that they do not need God. It is synonymous to a defiant five year-old saying he or she does not need nor want his or her parents. Sometimes they even "pack" a bag and run away, maybe getting as far as the end of the driveway. The truth is, they realize that they are quite insufficient in the real world and need help. A five-year old relies on parents, placed there by God, for food, shelter, teaching, protecting, companionship, and so much more. In the same way we rely on God for strength, spiritual food, wisdom, teaching, companionship, salvation, eternal protection, and a plethora of other things. So would He give you more than you can take? Maybe, but he would never give you more than you can take with His help. 1 Corinthians 10:13: "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." God does not strive to overwhelm, suffocate, and discourage us. He desires for us to succeed and rejoice in Him. We are like his team members. He, as our "life coach," wants us to represent Him with our success and perseverance. Perhaps some trials are put into our lives to bring us closer to Him and remind us of our dependence on Him. We too often forget to be thankful for the abundance of things He gives us even when we don't ask. However, when something goes awry, we are all too quick to complain and nag. In the words of someone else, "The Bible is meant to be bread for daily use, not cake for special occasions." We should treat God the same way.

We need to remember that these trials and tests are not in vain. We should come out of them stronger in our relationship with the Lord. As He promises to put them in our life, He also promises to bring us out! 1 Peter 5:10 encourages me with, ""And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you." He is not the sailor who would abandon a sick passenger on a deserted island so as not to contaminate the rest of His passengers. He cares about each of us deeply and genuinely. He will bring us out refreshed, new, and confident in Him. Even better, He will never turn His back on us or desert us. James 1:12: "Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love Him." The time we spend on earth will not even be comparable to the time we spend elsewhere for eternity. So why should we be caught up in these temporary trials?

Worry. It can consume, paralyze, overtake, and crush us in a second if we let it. Should we? No. Philippians 4:6-7: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." God knows we need His help and He knows when we need it. However, if we do not ask, will He likely give it? The Bible states: "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you" (Luke 11:9). Don't let your pride get the best of you; simply ask and He will help you. Life can feel like running. You are tired, weary, and can't catch a breath. But I can encourage you to not take the easy way out. Endure. 1 Timothy 6:12: "Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses.

I personally know that without some of the trials that have been put in my earlier life, I would not be the same person I am today. Lastly, I leave you with one of my all-time favorite verses. John 16:33:I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcame the world." Don't let the worry, fear, and trials of this world consume you. Ask God for help and He will give it whether it is about something small or really big. Have faith in Him. There's always someone who would give anything to get what you have.